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I'm going to share with you photos from my shoot
for an online sports company. Last month, I received
emailsfrom my readersthat all seem to have one predominant subject
in commonthat is, how can one be more patient with life's challenges. Their
circumstances are all quite different, however, the premise of their situation
is relatively similar. While responding to their emails, I felt it would also
do good to share some of my thoughts on this subject, with all of you. Your
daily life may consist of goals and achievements. Your goals may be large, as
in becoming CEO of a major corporation, starting your own company and making millions,
or building a huge home and starting a family, or they may be smaller, as in learning
to cook for yourself, winning a golf tournament, or reading a new book every month.
One thing I've learned is that the surest way to get from point A to Z is to first
go to point B, then C, then D, and so on. Skipping a single step, even though
it appears to be a shortcut, often is like leaping over too many stepping-stones,
sooner or later you're going to slip.
Hair and make up. Many
of us live only for the big highs, but forget that each small step up the mountain
is higher than the last. Some of us are so occupied with our goalsleaping
ahead of ourselves to the end resultthat we ignore the path and the process
in between. On the other had, some of us get so disoriented or doubtful about
how to get from here to there that we have trouble even setting our goals, or
we get stuck on one step, suffering from tunnel vision.
Almost ready. You may not know
what the solution looks like if you're too busy fighting the problem. When challenges
and difficulties confront you, your mind naturally shifts to what you don't want
to do, cannot do, fear doing. In response to the dynamic power of the mind, you'll
most likely get more of the very thing you don't want. When this happens, just
remember: You are free to change, able to chooseyou are in the process of
evolution; flipping and flopping, striking back and striking out, stumbling and
falling in order to determine who you are and what you want. This is all right,
there's nothing wrong with thisjust as long as you don't allow yourself
to be consumed in this type of behavior for an extended period of time. Instead,
allow yourself to experience these emotions honestly, learn from them, and move
on. Like everyone else, you are the result of the choices you've made so far.
So be sure each decision you make in life takes you a step closer to being your
greater Self.
We're all set! Also, keep in
mind that in order to take the first step in reaching your goals, you don't have
to see the whole staircase; just take the first step you see in front of you.
You can break down any achievement, no matter how large or imposing, into discrete,
manageable steps. By breaking your journey into shorter sections, you can appreciate
each step as if it was an end in itself. Every step is a small success in itself
so you can succeed many times, not just when you reach your final goal. What you
learn on your journey can turn out to be more important than reaching your destination.
First scenetie up the opposing team. |
I have to play the bully. |
For example, if you spend ten years traveling so you
can photograph some of the world's most beautiful cities, and then all your photographs
are destroyed, you have still gained the wonderful experience of seeing new sights,
learning about different cultures, and not to mention you've gained inner qualities,
including an ability to see with different eyes and to greater appreciate life's
people.
Wedgy time! |
Let's get down to business. | Before
I leave you to ponder on how you want to deal with your life's challenges, let
me remind you: On your climb to the topto pursue your dreams, achieve your
goalsthere will be people who are going to throw stones at you. Don't worry
about them, don't stop climbing, don't look back. Stay focused, stay strong, be
smart, bob, weave, be quick on your feet, get out of the way. The people who are
throwing stones will be so intent on hitting you they may not realize the stones
they're throwing up at you will fall back down and hit them on the head.
Just a little tighter. |
What did you say to me? | So
you see...on your journey to do better, on your path to empowerment, you're going
to find obstacles that will challenge you to make you stronger, make you think
and rethink what you're doing. Thinking strengthens your mind, and your strong
mind will understand that challenges you face aren't placed before you so you
can sit back and let them consume you, but rather so you can learn to face them
fearlessly, and with authorityknowing without a doubt they're offering you
an opportunity to reach greater heights!
Don't you dare!! |
Who's the underdog now? | |